In my last post, I mentioned that I’d be sharing the book trailer my oldest daughter made for THE FAMILY WAY. We had a blast working on it together, long distance. It was challenging but fun. I hope you enjoy watching it as much as we enjoyed making it.
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The Family Way Book Trailer
Posted by Laura Best on May 25, 2023
https://lauraabest.wordpress.com/2023/05/25/the-family-way-book-trailer/
A Little Inspiration for the Soul
Life is amazing
And then it’s awful.
And then it’s amazing again.
And in between the amazing and awful its ordinary and mundane and routine.
Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary.
That’s just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life.
And it’s breathtakingly beautiful.~~ LR Knost
I found this today and wanted to share. I hope you find it as inspirational as what I did. Enjoy the rest of your day.
Posted by Laura Best on May 2, 2023
https://lauraabest.wordpress.com/2023/05/02/a-little-inspiration-for-the-soul/
Not a Starving Artist
Just follow your art.
Some might say that is good advice.
Others might say it’s unrealistic–“I took a year off work to (insert your creative passion here) and I darn near starved to death.“
While I personally don’t make enough money writing to pay all my bills and, truth be told, most times I’d probably even go hungry were it not for other income, I refuse to call myself a “starving artist.”
Some people have an overinflated idea of how much money a published author makes or should make. Sometimes these are the very people hoping to one day become a published author. They may have dreams of signing book contracts with a million dollar advance. (Don’t we all?) It’s certainly something I’ve joked about on social media over the years.
But then that first book is finally published and what a glorious day that is. Months later, you received your first royalty cheque from the publisher and no doubt it is nowhere near what you had dreamed of. But with any luck it surpasses your expectations because perhaps you weren’t expecting to make it rich. Perhaps your sole purpose in writing was to express your art and share it with others who hopefully (although not always) enjoy it.
Reality eventually settles in for all of us who choose to pursue our art and these same people who had such high expectations for the book they spent years writing begin to realize that things aren’t as rosy for the published authors as they might have imagined.
BUT..
What if instead of declaring that you’ll never write again, you learn to accept the realty of what the publishing industry means for many writers. What if you kept on writing the stories that are begging to be written by you–yes, YOU.
Creating something that is uniquely you is really quite the something when you think of it and once it’s created, no one can take that away from you.
For many of us who write, what we receive in royalties is certainly not enough to live on. It is why a large percentage of us have “regular” jobs. While I can’t speak for other writers and the reason they might write, for me, it’s never been about making hoards of money or wanting to be noticed when I go out (far from it!.) It’s about artistic expression and sharing my thoughts and stories with others. It’s the feeling of accomplishment I get when I’m finally holding that published book in my hands. Each story represents a small part of me in one way or another.
I’m not sure how some people might use excuses to NOT to pursue their art
bills need to be paid
what if people don’t like what I’ve created?
For someone who is serious about their acts of creation, using the lack of money is just an excuse.
Get a job to pay the bills if you have to (that’s what I did) BUT by all means follow your creative endeavors when you are able. Don’t use the “all or nothing” excuse.
There aren’t any rules to this.
Who ever said you have to make a bundle of money doing something you love doing?
As for people not liking what you’ve created? So what.. I dare you to find a book or any other art for that matter that everyone on the planet absolutely loves. It’s just not going to happen. There are always bound to be people out there who won’t like what you’ve created for any number of reasons.
Just allow them to like what they like or not like. Say, “so what” and carry on with what you’re doing.
You only have to look at some of the reviews on Goodreads for books you absolutely loved and you’ll get a sense that we are not all alike when it comes to our tastes in books and that goes for any other form of art.
At the end of the day, you’re the one who has to feel satisfied with what you’ve created. Hopefully, you won’t use any excuses not to be the super-duper artist you were meant to be.
So, no need to call yourself a starving artist because you don’t need to be.
Just create without expectation of how much you need to earn and how fast you need to create.
Let the world know who you are and allow the Universe to look after the details.
Posted by Laura Best on April 13, 2023
https://lauraabest.wordpress.com/2023/04/13/not-a-starving-artist/
The First Day
Why, the first day of spring that is. Sun is shining here in Nova Scotia and the temperature this morning is rising quickly. But there have been signs of spring here before the official arrival of spring. Crocuses are blooming, we have taken notice of crows pairing up, the sighting of robins and maple trees with sap kettles hanging from them. I have yet to see any pussy willows but I’m willing to bet there are out there. An elderly aunt of mine informed us earlier today when you see your first robin, you’re supposed to make a wish. It’s the first time I’d heard that!
Spring brings hope, hope for warmer temperatures and sunnier times ahead. But March can also be fickle, teasing us into thinking that spring weather is here to stay and then suddenly, it’s back to wind and snow and cold. But the cold and snow never last long and that is the wonderful part of it all.
I have been working on a manuscript this winter, that is getting closer to completion with each passing day. It is a good thing, as I have some other projects that are vying for my attention and it is been a bit tempting by times to ditched the one I’m presently working on just to write a few paragraphs. However, I know better than to give into temptation. A few paragraphs can lead into a few pages and then a few chapters. But I am determined not to give in to temptation. Those other projects will have to simmer along as I continue to practise patience in this matter. I can still allow the story to flow through my mind, as I consider my characters and the possible twists and turns in the plotline. That’s it for today!
Happy first day of spring to the readers out there. What signs means “spring is here” to you?
Posted by Laura Best on March 20, 2023
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Daylight Saving Time
Yes, it’s “Saving” and not “Savings” time and it is sometimes mistakenly written. Google tells me that it was first introduced in Canada in 1918 to increase production for the First World War and each year there seems to be a dialogue around whether or not we should keep it or get rid of it. Personally, I have a feeling they’ll be debating this very thing for many more years to come and I get a little tired of hearing it be discussed. We keep hearing how the “spring ahead” has many health repercussions and yet that doesn’t seem to be a good enough reason to get rid of it.
I’ve got to be honest. I was happy with the slow increase of our daylight hours and it seemed a gentle reminder that spring was on the way. It felt good. What doesn’t feel good is this sudden ripping away of an hour to my morning routine. Not just morning, as I had trouble falling asleep last night as well. Today, I’m feeling like a nap would be welcomed at any time. My problem being, I don’t have time for one and it would no doubt throw me off once again. Sometimes you just can’t seem to win. I can remember as a school kid, being totally wiped out for a few days every spring and it was a miserable feeling.
Seriously, I could care less if we’re on Daylight or Standard time. Just pick one and leave there. The argument is Daylight Saving gives us more daylight hours in the evening, assuming, I guess, that people want to work until, what, ten o’clock in the evening, instead of getting an early start to the day? Sorry for being a teeny bit sarcastic here.
I’ll try to get myself back on a schedule that will work as well as the one I was on before that might “spring ahead” disrupted the balance I’d settled into.
So, is this whole “spring ahead” thing inconvenient and brutal? Heck yes. Necessary? Hmmmm. What do you all think?
Do you mind the time change each spring or do you just jump seamlessly into the change?
Posted by Laura Best on March 13, 2023
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The Great Horned Owl
I’ve been walking for over three months–through cold and wind, rain and snow without missing a day. The one day when the temperature dipped down into bitter frigid temperatures, I headed upstairs to my treadmill. Adding movement into my day is just one of the things I’ve decided was important to me because for sometime now I’ve told myself it wasn’t. I was wrong.
The wonderful thing about walking is that it allows us the solitude and peace that many of us crave but are struggle to find on a regular basis. Nature is always ready for us whenever we choose to join her. Walking an hour a day has been challenging during this time, but I no longer make excuses for not doing it, but rather look for ways to fit it into my day and make it a priority. So far, I have remained successful!
Winter here in Nova Scotia has taken a long time to find us and there were times when many of us thought it might not show up at all. The lake remained open well into the last week in January, even then there was not much ice to speak of and many days the ground was bare. But now the snow is finally here and I have chosen to embrace it as I trudge through the many trails on our property. It’s been quite lovely and these months have gone by quickly as I look for signs of wildlife, sing a little, write a little (in my head) and think.
And then one day, this great horned owl was watching me from it’s perch on the branch of a spruce tree. For a time it sat quietly looking down at me and I was able to snap a few photos with my phone but eventually it decided it was time to go.
While this was a rare sighting for me, I have also been pleased to come across chickadees, woodpecker and nuthatches in my daily jaunts.
Now that we are into the first week of March, hopefully spring weather is not far away. But whatever comes up, we’ll accept it because really that’s all we can do.
Here’s hoping you have a happy March.
Posted by Laura Best on March 6, 2023
https://lauraabest.wordpress.com/2023/03/06/the-great-horned-owl/
The Lost Art of Letter-writing
The other day, I received a hand-written letter in the mail and what a treasure it was, quite literally. I found it in a hidden compartment (how mysterious) in a home made card sent by a friend.
I found the letter later as I was going through all the treasures inside the card. As you can see in the photos there were a number of positive noted enclosed that I absolutely loved. Each one serves as a small gift of it’s own.
I thought about how long it had been since I had written to someone, other than a quick note sprawled in a Christmas card (but I hardly think that counts.) I couldn’t remember when last I sent sent one. As a child I wrote to a pen pal in the US for many years. We started writing when we were eleven, stayed in contact for many years, but lost contact years after we were both married with families. I suppose we were both busy raising children and working. Then one day, I took a chance and sent a letter to her old address and low and behold, she received it! These days we are Facebook friends and message occasionally. Not bad for a 50 year time span.
The talented friend who sent me this card has been doing this faithfully during the pandemic and beyond and it’s always a highlight to my day when one arrives. Most do not contain letters, but there are always positive messages and there have been times when a certain message came at exactly the right time. I am so grateful to this friend for her thoughtfulness.
In my latest book, This is it, Lark Harnish, Lark sends letters home to her family and receives some as well. Of course, back in 1919, when this book is sent, it was really the only way to stay in contact with someone from afar–no phones, no Internet. How did they do it? The interesting thing about the word “afar”, when used back then, for it does have the same meaning now. Today, we would not think that Lark had moved very far from home to work for the McMaster family, but back then, it was. Many places in rural Nova Scotia were quite isolated.
Back then, the world was a much bigger place and we live in a world that is quickly shrinking. I do miss receiving letters in the mail. There is something precious about holding that envelope in your hands and realizing the time involved in it’s arrival. Emails are nice, and certainly quick, but I think we’ve lost something along the way and that makes me a little sad.
Do you still send hand-written letter? I’d love to hear about it if you do.
Posted by Laura Best on February 17, 2023
https://lauraabest.wordpress.com/2023/02/17/the-lost-art-of-letter-writing/
World Read Aloud Day
Being on break from social media, I wasn’t aware that today is World Read Aloud Day. But then, a message came to me from The Author Fairy (a.k.a Sue Slade) that the awesome folks at The Dartmouth Book Exchange had chosen, This is it, Lark Harnish to celebrate for World Read Aloud Day and I was sent the link of the lovely Amy McIsaac reading from my book!
If you’re interested in hearing Amy read a snippet from the book, I’ve included the link HERE.
The first World Read Aloud Day was back in 2010 and “celebrates the power of reading aloud to create community, amplify stories, and advocate for literacy as a foundational human right.” Since its beginning, it has grown into a global movement of over 170 countries. How awesome is that?
I hope you were able to celebrate World Read Aloud Day, and if this is the first time you’re hearing of it, you might want to check out the link I provided above.
Happy World Read Aloud Day!
Posted by Laura Best on February 1, 2023
https://lauraabest.wordpress.com/2023/02/01/world-read-aloud-day/